Heard from him Monday, after over a year! He will explain himself why. (I suspect a stroke ....

An architect who sketches Mary's apartment building takes an interest in her and asks her out.

1 Cor 7:5 5 Do not refuse and deprive and defraud each other [of your due marital rights], except perhaps by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves unhindered to prayer. But afterwards resume marital relations, lest Satan tempt you [to sin] through your lack of restraint of sexual desire. [Ex 19:15.] AMP